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GOD SEEKERS' CONFERENCE 2026

Growing In Love

Apostle Sylvester Arhin - Takoradi Area Head ·05 July 2026 ·1 Corinthians 13:1-3

Opening Scripture (1 Corinthians 13:1–3)

"If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing."

Introduction

  • Agitation, quarreling, misunderstanding, and struggles for dominance are common in our world — in politics, families, communities, and even the church.

  • Believers are called to a different standard: growing in love, regardless of gifts, grace, or ability.

  • Jesus' new commandment (John 13:34–35): "Love one another, as I have loved you... By this everyone will know you are my disciples."

I. Speaking with the Voice of Men

  • Some are gifted with eloquence and persuasive speech — orators who captivate audiences.

  • Encouragement: pursue vocabulary, study, and the discipline of articulate speech (illustration: Barack Obama's rhetorical skill during his campaign).

  • Key point: Eloquence without love is "only a noise" — mere annoyance, lacking depth. Words must be backed by love, not lip service.

II. Speaking with the Voice of Angels

  • Some carry deep spiritual gifts — tongues, interpretation, prophetic insight — that seem to reveal the very mind of God.

  • Illustration: Ahithophel — his counsel was so wise it was "as if one consulted the oracle of God" (2 Samuel 16:23), yet his hatred toward David led him to betrayal and eventually suicide.

  • Key point: Spiritual gifting is not proof of love. A person can speak like an angel and act in a spirit far from God.

III. Prophecy, Mysteries, Knowledge, and Mountain-Moving Faith

  • Illustration: William Wilberforce — presented 11 petitions to the British Parliament over ~20 years to abolish the slave trade; the bill finally passed by God's grace, and slavery was ended.

  • Great gifting can move real mountains in society — but even this must be married to love, or it does not ultimately profit mankind.

  • Wilberforce's example: after one victory, he asked what other "mountains" could be addressed — a model of continual, love-driven impact.

IV. Sacrifice — Giving the Body to Be Burned

  • Even extreme sacrifice (martyrdom, suffering) can be done without love — sometimes for show or from wounded pride.

  • Illustration: Christians imprisoned and tortured under communist regimes (e.g., Romania) — some who suffered in prison grew bitter and angry toward believers who were not imprisoned, feeling those others had "failed" the faith.

  • Key point: Suffering itself does not equal love. Even pain and endurance must be motivated by love, not resentment.

V. Generosity — Giving All

  • All believers are called to be generous, though some are given special grace for giving ("conduits" of blessing).

  • Illustration: A respected, generous man who — despite his generosity — publicly reminded people of what he'd given them, exposing an ungracious heart behind the giving.

  • Key point: Generosity must be backed by love, not used to keep score or assert superiority. Kindness, encouragement, and how we treat people matter as much as material giving.

  • Reminder: People are not given equal gifts or grace — treat others, especially those with less, with patience and compassion.

The Preacher of Love: Paul's Transformation

  • Paul (formerly Saul of Tarsus) once persecuted the church, complicit in Stephen's death, and imprisoned believers.

  • His transformation came through an encounter with the risen Christ on the road to Damascus.

  • Galatians 2:20 — "The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."

  • Application: True love is only possible through a genuine, transforming encounter with Christ.

The Example of Christ

  • As a newborn, threatened by Herod, yet God chose to preserve His life rather than avenge Him — love, not retaliation.

  • His earthly ministry: feeding the hungry, healing the sick, raising the dead — all flowing from love.

  • On the cross, despite mockery and abuse, His first words were: "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."

  • His resurrection charge: "All authority has been given to me. Go... love one another."

Conclusion / Application

  • Gifts, eloquence, spiritual power, sacrifice, and generosity — none of these have eternal value apart from love.

  • Without love, even great works are "for show" and "gain nothing."

  • With love — even if our gifts and works are few — we receive a reward from the Lord.

  • Call to action: As we approach the Lord's Table, examine whether our lives, gifts, and service are saturated with genuine, Christ-like love — not hypocrisy.